One of the most important lessons Carnegie teaches is "Make the other person feel important". By making the bride and groom feel they are the most important people on their special day is one of the duties of the best man. Using one of Dale Carnegie's public speaking books can only improve your best man speech.

Another lesson Dale Carnegie teaches is "Remember to touch a personal chord". By focusing all your remarks on a personal level not only makes the happy couple more radiant but it also shows how important they are to you.

Using Dale Carnegie's three fundamentals helps you communicate your thoughts during your best man speech and focus on what's important and not on your nerves. His books help to get rid of the fear of public speaking and will help you make the most excellent of your best man speech.