Keeping the happy occasion of a wedding in mind, it is always wise to have a layout in the back of your mind if you are simply speaking strait from your heart, or reading a prepared best man speech. Traditionally, best man speeches is a formal way to acknowledge and salute the wedding couple, briefly explain the relationship between the groom and the best man, as well as thank the guests for attending.

Since there are various best man speech layouts, you will simply have to pick one or create one that fits your style and personality. There is no law or set rule in how you present the best man speech, but delivering it in a smooth and relaxed manner is always noticed and appreciated by most. Being an emotional and often nerve racking event for the wedding couple, as well as the close family members, the best man speech can calm and enhance the overall wedding and reception experience in a great way, if presented in an orderly manner. However, don't make the best man speech too stiff and rehearsed, as it will lose its authenticity and emotional touch. Needless to say, this is not a military or a corporate event, but a joyous and happy celebration of two individuals coming together as one.

Perhaps the greatest thing to remember is to not procrastinate on preparing the best man speech, thinking you will throw something together the night before. Especially if you fear speaking in front of a large group of people like a lot of best men out there. At that point you are likely exhausted from rehearsal dinners, fittings and finding just the right gift.