First of all, besides knowing intellectually and emotionally how to keep your man, you must LOOK GOOD. Yes, it is important. Very important. You know it is. That's why you spend money on cosmetics and nice looking clothes and on your hair.



A guy wishes you would look the way you did when he first fell in love with you -- forever. Of course, most women can't just will this to happen. You will age and change over time, but you CAN do the following: stay in nice shape, wear your hair the way he likes, dress in a way that flatters your body and don't walk around in YOUR underwear around the house.

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If you're thinking, "Why should I do these things for him?" then perhaps you shouldn't be with him. If you don't respect your man enough to WANT to look good for him then maybe he's not worthy of you? Or maybe you have given up?



Here are some SIGNS THAT YOU NO LONGER ARE INTERESTED IN HOW TO KEEP YOUR MAN:



- you fart around him, like at the dinner table. Then you hold you hands up and shout, "high-five!"

- when he tells you about his exciting new plans to make more money you roll your eyes while twirling your index finger.

- you no longer call him by those cute little pet names like sweetie or honey. Now you call him by NEW pet names like moron and idiot. It just doesn't sound as nice!



OLD PET NAME

YOU: Would you please pick up my mother from the airport, sweetie?



NEW PET NAME

YOU: Would you please pick up my mother from the airport, lazy ass?



Don't forget that a man who's happy and interested should also work hard for you. He should WANT to take care of you, to be successful for you, to look good for you. So yes, ladies, do some Yoga, eat healthy, and take care of your skin and your body. Believe me, your man WILL notice and appreciate this. Lastly, and this is important -- be awesome in bed and be AVAILABLE. This means you will sometimes find yourself making love when you don't really feel like it.



TIMES WHEN YOU WANT SEX

- when he's just done something really manly

- you just ate a bunch of chocolate

- you're tipsy on red wine

- it's 7 pm on Tuesday and that's what you scheduled in your calendar



TIMES WHEN HE WANTS SEX

- he is awake

- he is asleep

- he is half-awake

- after his team won in baseball, football, or whatever sport he's into

- after he's just seen that new action movie you were bored to tears watching.







Again, all this advice is based upon the assumption that you love your man and want to keep your man happy and keep your man interested. Does he do things for YOU that he may not naturally want to do? Hopefully! But a good man will do them because he knows they make you happy.



If your man does in fact go out of his way for you, then he deserves the same from you. He may not want you to mow the lawn, or throw out the trash, or visit your family for 12 hours -- what he wants is sex when he needs it. Yes, NEEDS it. If you don't provide him with enough good sex, he WILL look elsewhere. Trust me.



You don't want to hear any psychobabble reasons why guys may stray and look somewhere else -- I'm telling you the HARD TRUTH. Why? Because I actually care enough to share this with you because it makes me happy when couples stay together and LOVE each other instead of leaving each other.