As a psychic advisor the
majority of my calls are from people with problems in their love
life. What I have observed that is ruining relationships is modern
technology. Nowadays people use Text Messaging, Facebook, Myspace,
and E-Mail as ways of communicating with someone that they are in a
relationship with or trying to have a relationship with.
Let me explain to you that
this is not real communication. The Dictionary defines
communication as the following: The Act of Communicating;
Transmission.
a. The exchange of thoughts, messages, or information, as
by speech, signals, writing, (Texting is not writing) or
behavior.
b. Interpersonal rapport.
c. The art and technique of using words effectively to impart
information or ideas.
True communication is face to face or by telephone where you can
hear the tone and pick up the vibration of what this person is
feeling towards you. It’s impossible to understand what someone is
meaning if it’s a joke or if it’s something serious with a few
simple text messages back and forth.
I have clients call me
with frantic questions such as: I texted him/her twenty minutes ago
and he/she hasn’t responded back. What is he/she thinking about me.
Is he/she mad at me. What does this mean? Why doesn’t he/ she
respond? I tell them it’s easy, call and find out or go and
see him/her.
Relationships and marriages
are falling apart faster than the economy. The main reason is
people are not having proper communication. The art of
communication is being lost because of the modern methods of
communication or should I say lack of communication. I don’t
understand why someone cannot take a few minutes to pick up the
phone and call and get a direct answer rather than agonize for
hours before someone responds to their text or e-mail message. It
doesn’t make sense. Yet, every day as a psychic advisor I hear the
same questions over and over from different people.
My advice is always the same
if you want to ruin the relationship or potential relationship
continue using Text Message. It’s a sure fire way to end a new
relationship or destroy a relationship that has been going for a
few years.
When people go to business
meetings, luncheons or dinners, many times they are Texting
messages under the table. They are Texting when they drive their
cars, when they’re walking down the street, in a hospital, or even
in a movie theater. This has gone way too far.
It’s evident that our society
is falling apart in so many different areas and communication is
probably the biggest one. It’s difficult to get people to read. I
often send written advice to a client after our phone call and they
will tell me they never read what I sent. When I ask why, they
reply with, “Well I just don’t have time.” If you can find time to
brush your teeth, have a meal, or watch television, you have time
to read. “No matter how busy you may
think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender
yourself to self-chosen ignorance.” ~ Atwood H. Townsend
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As long as you continue
communicating in these methods you can be guaranteed that you will
not have a successful relationship.
My advice is if you want to
ruin a relationship - Keep Texting!
If you need help with your
relationship give me a call at (866)-563-3997 and together we will
find the solution for you.
Why doesn't he call me?
™®©2010
Cherokee
Billie