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Top 10: Female Sex Fantasies
If you think women don’t sit around fantasizing about very naughty things, think again. Women are experts when it comes to dreaming up the sauciest of fantasies, and they don’t bother limiting themselves to the traditional. The top 10 female sex fantasies covers everything from fetishes to threesomes, and you may be surprised to know that many women want to do more than just fantasize. Some women spend just as much time hoping their men will help put their female sex fantasies into practice. Sound interesting? Read on: We'll give you the inside scoop on the top 10 female sex fantasies, and what she’s really daydreaming about when you least expect it.
Domination (her dominating you)
Women love a big strong man who can sweep them off their feet and carry them into the sunset -- but you may be surprised to learn that one of the top female sex fantasies is to have that same big strong man begging for sexual release in the bedroom. This involves tying you down to a bed while she forces you to pleasure her with your tongue; the entire scenario revolves around you worshipping her body and begging for her attention. Why? She gets to be in control while enjoying total devotion from her man in the process. What more could she want?
Domination (you dominating her)
The advent of the metrosexual is most commonly blamed for this top 10 female sex fantasy. It seems that modern, independent women actually prefer real men who aren’t afraid to embrace their testosterone. This woman fantasizes about you pinning her down, thrusting her thighs apart with your knee and penetrating her as savagely as you possibly can. She wants to feel your fingers snake through her hair and pull her head back; she wants to feel your teeth on her shoulder; she wants to be owned -- if only while in the bedroom (after which, she’ll want a clear return to equality). This win-win female sex fantasy scenario allows her to fully indulge her femininity, while still espousing the merits of feminism.
Teacher/student
You’ll be thrilled to know that the Britney Spears fantasy isn’t just for men: Women love the idea of dressing up like a schoolgirl and parading about for your viewing pleasure. Many would even like to take it a step further, playing the naughty tart who won’t stop teasing you until you pull her over your knee and give her the spanking she craves. That’s right: Loads and loads of grown women fantasize about getting a proper spanking from their man. A spanking from you is exciting for two reasons: Not only does this mild show of dominance hurt so good, but it also usually leads straight into hot, hot sex.
Sex with a stranger
Most women wouldn’t have the chutzpah to act out this top 10 female sex fantasy, but you’d better believe that most have thoroughly enjoyed thinking about it. No-strings-attached sex is something many women would love to experience, but most are dissuaded from it thanks to a lofty load of self-produced guilt. Nevertheless, her panties definitely get wet at the idea of a gorgeous male approaching her in a dark, smoky bar and taking her back to his room for a long, hot night of wild sex. This female sex fantasy appeals to her naughtiest side -- the kinky one that rarely sees the light of day, thanks to a lifetime of religious and societal conditioning.
Threesome with another woman
These days, it’s fairly common for straight women to get down with other women now and again, making this top 10 female sex fantasy a not-so-unrealistic possibility. That being said, this threesome fantasy rarely involves you getting playtime with the second hottie, as most girlfriends do not want to see their man touch another woman. In this scenario, you’re meant to play voyeur until your woman is ready for something more hardcore. This allows her to experience the best of both worlds without having to worry about things like jealousy or sharing.
Threesome with two men
This top 10 female sex fantasy involves the woman being worshipped and adored by two gorgeous men. These men are typically heterosexual and, therefore, only interested in the woman -- which translates into a whole lot of action for her. Her sex fantasy might be as innocent as being penetrated by one man while performing oral sex on the other or it might go further, drawing on more hardcore aspects such as double penetration and the like. This female sex fantasy is the ultimate taboo for many women, which makes it all the more fun to imagine.
Voyeurism
If you think women don’t enjoy watching other people get it on, you’re completely mistaken. Your woman likes to watch for the same reasons as you do: It’s erotic, exhilarating and slightly taboo. She may fantasize about peeping through the neighbor’s bedroom window, spying on a kinky couple in the park or even catching a full-on orgy from the sidelines. Believe it when we tell you she enjoys "watching" just as much as you do; it allows to her be naughty without getting her hands dirty, so to speak.
Rape
As mentioned in our common female fantasies article, rape is a massively popular fantasy among women. Most psychologists believe this top 10 female sex fantasy allows a woman to have the wild, dirty sex she craves, without having to suffer the guilt that often follows. These female sex fantasies usually involve a gorgeous man carrying her off to his bedroom and quickly getting down to business. She’ll protest as he tears her clothing off and expertly arouses her body, but on the inside, she’ll love every minute of it. This continues to the point of penetration, and leads her to an incredible orgasm despite her earlier protests. This female sex fantasy allows a woman to be wanton and enjoy sex -- something society rarely permits.
Exhibitionism
She might cringe when you bring up the topic of making homemade porn flicks, but your woman has probably fantasized about doing precisely that at one time or another. Unfortunately, most women are far too body-conscious to experiment with such things, making this a top 10 female sex fantasy, as opposed to a reality. Believe it or not, some women even take this desire to the next level, fantasizing about others watching as you shag her silly in a public place.
Private dancer
Most women wouldn’t have the nerve to strip in a public setting,
but this top 10 female sex fantasy definitely involves taking it
all off. She loves the idea of tantalizing you with a striptease,
and she’d love to give you a private lap dance. Why? Your enjoyment
tells her you find her attractive, and your erection tells her she
has control -- a potent combination that women simply can’t get
enough of.
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Reader Comments: 117 Posts
Rape is not something that (most healthy) women fantasize about. Rape is terrifying. Women may fantasize about having wild, aggressive sex, but that is not the same as rape. Rape is when someone violates you, your space, and your body, without your permission. There is nothing remotely pleasurable about it. Confusing rape as something women secretly desire is to normalize rape as acceptable, which it is NOT.
Wow... this list is pretty bad. This was obviously written by a guy or lesbian.
I would say 1/2 of this list is not applicable to most women. Maybe men dreaming about what women would fantasize, but not women actually fantasising about it. 9 & 10 are probably most womens fantasies. I would also say 4, 7 & 8 could be possible fantasies for a lot of women. The rest are total crap unless your dealing with a crazy sex freak. The rape thing is just bullsh!t, unless your seriously unstable. Maybe bondage and domination, but not rape. Whoever came up with that seriously needs to think about seeing a psychiatrist.
rape, illegal no matter the people involved, couple or strangers.
now if the couple talks about certain guide lines, like hitting, name calling, etc.. off limits, but everything else is free rein, with safe word or words. it is no longer called rape but domination.
I feel its better to listen to the other person in the relationship and figure out the fantasies that you both have and see if any of them are even possible. some maybe only once and never again. though you never know if you can't talk openly enough about it.
How do you determine the rankings of this top ten list? where is the source or evidence of your research? Or is this just another top ten list you had a freelancer crank out for you on amazon mechanical turk for 10 dollars?
I think a better term would be 'ravished' not 'rape'.
I Personally dont think they are making the statement for rape as being from a random person who is doing it wrongfully, i think what the basis is, from which of a person who loves them doing it, as a sanctioned experience. I know personally about 2 years ago my spouse wanted to role play with it, though i personally could not partake in it because i felt it wasnt right even in a love thought. So like i figure I personally dont think this fantasy is stated for being actually raped, dont think any woman/man would really like to be raped, but more so the role play aspect of it.
the topic was woman fantasy of sex but ic it has provoked the debate that is rape desirable for a girl ,in logicle terms no girl should go to court after being raped if its alwasys desirable,even if a wom,an fantasizes of being raped its a symbolic thing related to her relation an act where she would place her self as a vicim and her lover or bf as a rapist ,in such a case word desire is justified apart from this we cant claim that we r just sex creatures ,sex is a part of life not whole life and many other factors promote it in a humanly way like romance,love,sincerety and much more
Rape? Dammit, all this while society had been giving me the wrong info. Lookout world, here comes the new me!! *call the cops* :P
i think the male who wrote this article is confusing BDSM with rape. i highly doubt that any woman really fantasizes about being raped.
What do you think?
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